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WEBINAR

Staying Silent: Unravelling the What, Why and How of Disclosure in Adulthood

Date: Wednesday, 23 September, 2026

Time: 10-11am (London, UK) 

Price: Free

Conversations with: Jeremy Indika


Staying Silent is a powerful short film by Jeremy Indika, speaker, founder of Something to Say and expert by experience. The film asks its audience to rethink how they see disclosure of child sexual abuse, and to consider the barriers that may be in place. On average, it takes people 24 years to disclose. Many never disclose. Even when a victim/survivor does disclose as an adult, they can be met with a system that does not understand their experience.

This webinar provides a unique opportunity to watch this film and reflect on it alongside peers from across services, and to be part of a dialogue that can start to shift attitudes around disclosure in adulthood. Through this, we will consider how the criminal justice system, and the way victims and survivors experience it, can prevent or delay disclosure.

If you work with victims/survivors in social care, mental health, the police, across the criminal justice system and beyond, this screening is for you.

As well as a showing the film, there will also be a chance to hear from Jeremy Indika, who co-created the short film to raise awareness around these topics.

Staying Silent will make you think about the systems, beliefs and misconceptions in place that keep victims and survivors of child sexual abuse silent, and asks you to consider your role in changing that reality.


 

 

Engaging with the film and through conversations with Jeremy Indika, we hope you will be inspired to:

  • Reflect on the complex and nuanced reasons behind why it may take someone 20+ years to disclose, or why they may never disclose
  • Consider what the key systemic issues, beliefs and misconceptions might be, that contribute to disclosure taking so long
  • Explore what effective support to disclosure in adulthood might look like
  • Deepen your understanding of how our systems treat victims of non-recent child sexual abuse
  • Understand what it means for victims and survivors to remain silent for so long, what is the cost?
  • Engage with what it means to be truly victim and survivor focussed
  • Understand what might prevent a child from disclosing at the time of abuse

 

Who should attend?

  • Education professionals
  • Health professionals
  • Police officers
  • Youth Justice professionals
  • Youth workers
  • Foster carers
  • Residential children’s home staff
  • Social workers (newly qualified to very experienced)
  • Principal Social Workers
  • Professionals working in relevant charity and voluntary sector organisations

 


Meet the speakers

 

Jeremy Indika

Founder of Something to Say, Speaker and Podcast Host, and lived experience expert

Jeremy Indika is a former McLaren design engineer turned speaker and podcast host, and the founder of Something to Say — a movement using personal story to break the silence around the sexual abuse of children. His talks and workshops help parents, schools, and communities understand grooming, spot the signs, and take action to protect children.